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If you do this too much, especially the part about continuing the conversation as if nothing ever happened, or about viewing them as a toddler. It’s likely to come off as dismissing/invalidating their feelings and can feel very demeaning. If you make the person feel this way it probably will infuriate them further, and no it not help to deescalate the situation (though they are unlikely to understand exactly why in the moment).