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It assumes that couples are generally mixed-gender, and that each conflict has one male role and one female role that are in oppoition with each other because of some gender-essentialist Mars-Venus magic. If they take the existence of same-gender couples into consideration in the first place, they wonder what on earth they would fight about, and how a relationship can even exist without this underlying conflicting dynamic that arises from the Mars-Venus magic.